Grief Counseling Notes Template

Grief Counseling Notes Template

Description:

This template provides a structured framework for therapists conducting ongoing grief counseling sessions, capturing critical details about the client’s emotional state, coping mechanisms, and progress through grief to inform an adaptive treatment plan. It is designed to assess the client’s current experience of loss across emotional, behavioral, and social domains, with comprehensive guidance to ensure a thorough evaluation that supports grief processing and healing.


Note:

Use this template for regular sessions addressing grief concerns. Adapt sections based on the client’s grief profile, readiness to engage, or co-occurring needs, maintaining a compassionate and supportive approach.


Date: [Record the date of the grief counseling session to track the client’s therapeutic timeline]

Client Name: [Enter the client’s full legal name for accurate identification and documentation]

Therapist Name: [Enter the therapist’s full name to establish accountability and authorship]

Session Number: [Note the session number in the sequence of therapy to contextualize progress]


Consent and Confidentiality

[Document the client’s understanding and agreement to the therapy process, including confidentiality limits (e.g., mandatory reporting for harm), noting signatures or verbal consent per ethical and legal standards.]


Client Information

  • Client Name: [Enter the client’s full legal name as provided for clear record-keeping]

  • Date of Birth: [Record the client’s date of birth in MM/DD/YYYY format to confirm age and grief timeline context]

  • Emergency Contact: [List the name, relationship, and contact information of an emergency contact for urgent situations]

  • Referral Source: [Note who referred the client (e.g., self, family, physician), including the reason, to contextualize the session’s purpose]


Grief History

  • Loss Profile: [Describe the nature of the loss (e.g., death of a loved one, divorce), including who or what was lost, when it occurred, and the client’s relationship to it, to map the grief’s scope.]

  • Progression and Patterns: [Record how the client’s grief has evolved over time, including initial reactions, changes in intensity, and current emotional patterns, to assess its trajectory.]

  • Previous Grief Support: [Detail prior interventions for this or other losses (e.g., support groups, therapy), including duration, outcomes, and client perceptions, to understand past coping efforts.]

  • Related Impacts: [Note emotional, physical, or social consequences of the loss (e.g., isolation, fatigue), to gauge its toll on the client’s life.]


Current Functioning

  • Grief Status: [Document current grief-related emotions or behaviors (e.g., sadness, anger), including frequency and intensity, to assess immediate needs.]

  • Behavioral Observations: [Record in-session behaviors (e.g., tearfulness, withdrawal) to provide a snapshot of grief-related presentation.]

  • Emotional State: [Describe the client’s emotional condition (e.g., despair, numbness), to evaluate the psychological impacts of grief.]

  • Functional Impairment: [Detail how grief affects daily life (e.g., work, relationships), to measure disruption across domains.]


Co-occurring Factors

  • Mental Health History: [List past or current mental health diagnoses (e.g., depression), including relevance to grief, to identify dual-diagnosis needs.]

  • Medical History: [Note physical health conditions or medications, including grief-related issues (e.g., insomnia), to assess overall health.]

  • Environmental Triggers: [Identify situational or emotional triggers for intensified grief (e.g., anniversaries, holidays), to understand contextual influences.]


Risk Assessment

  • Self-Harm or Suicidal Ideation: [Document thoughts or actions related to self-harm or suicide, including triggers, to prioritize psychological safety.]

  • Health Risks: [Record any grief-related health risks (e.g., neglecting self-care), to address physical safety.]

  • Protective Factors: [Highlight factors reducing risk (e.g., social support, hope), to leverage in treatment.]


Strengths and Resources

  • Client Strengths: [Identify resilience, skills, or positive traits (e.g., openness), to support grief processing efforts.]

  • Support Systems: [List supportive relationships or resources (e.g., friends, faith community), to utilize in the healing process.]


Goals for Therapy

  • Client Goals: [Describe the client’s aspirations for managing grief (e.g., “feel less overwhelmed”), capturing their motivation.]

  • Therapist’s Session Goals: [Outline objectives for this session (e.g., explore coping strategies), to guide immediate therapeutic direction.]


Next Steps

[Detail session frequency and format (e.g., bi-weekly therapy), focus for the next session (e.g., processing a memory), and contact options, to maintain a clear plan.]


Summary and Session Impressions

  • [Summarize the therapist’s understanding of the client’s grief experience during this session, integrating emotional state, progress, and strengths, to guide ongoing therapy.]


Plan for Session Interventions

  • [Outline interventions used in this session (e.g., narrative therapy, guided imagery), focus areas (e.g., emotional expression), or immediate actions (e.g., assign a ritual), to support grief processing.]


Grief Counseling Notes Template (Filled Mock Session)

Description:

This template provides a structured framework for therapists conducting ongoing grief counseling sessions, capturing critical details about the client’s emotional state, coping mechanisms, and progress through grief to inform an adaptive treatment plan. It is designed to assess the client’s current experience of loss across emotional, behavioral, and social domains, with comprehensive guidance to ensure a thorough evaluation that supports grief processing and healing.


Note:

Use this template for regular sessions addressing grief concerns. Adapt sections based on the client’s grief profile, readiness to engage, or co-occurring needs, maintaining a compassionate and supportive approach.


Date: April 10, 2025

Client Name: Maria Gonzalez

Therapist Name: Dr. Laura Kim

Session Number: 3


Consent and Confidentiality

  • Maria verbally agreed to ongoing therapy and understands confidentiality limits (e.g., harm reporting). She expressed comfort with continuing sessions.


Client Information

  • Client Name: Maria Gonzalez

  • Date of Birth: 05/15/1978

  • Emergency Contact: Carlos Gonzalez, Son, 555-321-9876

  • Referral Source: Self-referred after struggling with grief following her husband’s death six months ago.


Grief History

  • Loss Profile: Husband, Miguel, passed away from cancer on October 5, 2024, after 30 years of marriage.

  • Progression and Patterns: Initial shock and denial shifted to intense sadness and anger within three months; currently feels numb with occasional tearfulness.

  • Previous Grief Support: Attended a grief support group for two sessions last month but stopped, finding it “too overwhelming.”

  • Related Impacts: Withdrawn from friends, has difficulty maintaining household routines, and reports constant fatigue.


Current Functioning

  • Grief Status: Maria reports feeling detached this week, with sadness intensifying around her husband’s favorite TV show airing. Cries 2-3 times daily.

  • Behavioral Observations: Sat quietly, hands clasped tightly, teared up when discussing memories but maintained conversation.

  • Emotional State: Describes a mix of numbness and guilt (“I should’ve done more”), with fleeting moments of relief when distracted.

  • Functional Impairment: Struggles to cook or clean, relies on her son for support, and avoids social outings she once enjoyed.


Co-occurring Factors

  • Mental Health History: No formal diagnoses, but reports low mood since Miguel’s diagnosis two years ago.

  • Medical History: Hypertension managed with medication; recent sleep issues (4-5 hours nightly).

  • Environmental Triggers: Husband’s belongings in the house, upcoming wedding anniversary on May 20th.


Risk Assessment

  • Self-Harm or Suicidal Ideation: Denies current thoughts; mentions occasional passive ideation (“I’d rather be with him”) but no intent.

  • Health Risks: Neglecting meals, losing weight (5 lbs in a month), increasing fatigue.

  • Protective Factors: Son’s daily check-ins, strong faith, and desire to “be there” for her grandchildren.


Strengths and Resources

  • Client Strengths: Reflective, devoted to family, finds comfort in prayer.

  • Support Systems: Son Carlos lives nearby, and the church community offers emotional support.


Goals for Therapy

  • Client Goals: “I want to feel less empty and enjoy things again.”

  • Therapist’s Session Goals: Enhance emotional expression, and begin exploring ways to honor Miguel’s memory.


Next Steps

  • Bi-weekly 50-minute sessions, next on April 24, 2025, Thursdays at 2 p.m. Focus on preparing for the anniversary. Contact: laura.kim@therapy.org or 555-654-3210.


Summary and Session Impressions

  • Maria, a 46-year-old widow, is grappling with intense grief six months after her husband’s death, showing signs of depression and detachment. Strengths include her faith and family support, but she struggles with daily functioning and upcoming triggers.


Plan for Session Interventions

  • Used narrative therapy to share a positive memory of Miguel, introduced guided imagery to recall a comforting moment with him, and assigned homework to create a small memorial (e.g., photo frame) to honor him.

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